Six Tips To Picking Up Women
Clueless when it comes to picking up a woman?
You DON’T need a hot body and super star looks.
The majority of men make this huge error in thinking. Do you realize that some 85% of women place way more importance on how a man makes them FEEL, as opposed to obsessing over how he actually LOOKS. So if you’re still insecure about your looks, don’t be! There’s absolutely hope for you.
You DON’T have to be rich, spend a lot of money or drive a hot set of wheels!
A lot of guys I know don’t drive flashy cars, some don’t drive at all and spend less than $35 on a date. But they are never without women. Their skill is in getting her to like them. If she likes you, she’ll overlook little things like what kind of car you drive or how much cash you flash. Did you get that? If she LIKES you!
Last of all stop trying to be INTERESTING!
DON’T try to be something you’re not. You don’t need a body like Hugh Jackman, put on some exotic accent or pretend to be rich and famous to get the girl.
The truth of the matter is that there really are no excuses. None of the things that are holding you back need to hold you back when it comes to picking up women. She’s just interested in the genuine guy inside. The one with the great personality. Letting him out is easy if you just relax.
Quit thinking about yourself. How interesting you are is not important. Women don’t want to hear your impressive stories about yourself. It tells them you’re only interested in you, and that is an instant turnoff. Why not turn it around and work on being INTERESTED in HER. LISTEN to what she’s saying. Give her positive feedback. Now you’ll have her attention and she’ll LOVE you for it. Go ahead and try it.
Get lots of practice to get more confident.
When you first try these new tactics, go out often and talk to all the women you can. No need to go to night clubs and high pressure dating environments. You can go anywhere to meet women.
It makes no difference where you go, but it is important to talk to some women every day. The more often you do it, the better you’ll get. With practice mastering the art of picking up women will soon be within your reach.
Make sure you look and smell your best.
When you’re out there gaining experience at picking up women, make the effort to look good. This is different from being good looking. This is about your clothes and your hair and the way you smell.
Chose clothes that look good on you and fit well. If you can’t choose on your own get a female friend to help. While you don’t need to be decked out in the latest fashion, making an effort makes you feel more confident.
If you can afford it, invest in a classy scent for men. Women LOVE a guy who smells good. You can’t go for a cheap alternative here, they’ll smell cheap and it’ll be a turn off. If you can’t afford a good one, just stick to soap.
Steps 1 through 4 to pick up.
There’s a simple 4 step structure to every pickup that you can repeat time and time again.
Find a girl
speak to her
Develop a relationship
Work towards Attraction
These four simple steps are all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too. So your job now is to get better at each step.
Now go get the girl!
Once too nervous to talk to women, the author wrote the Deluxe Course on The Art of Approaching to share the methods he learned by trial and error with you. Sign up for his free newsletter This and other unique content ‘the art of approaching women’ articles are available with free reprint rights.